One of my mentors, Danielle Laporte, posted this (in part) "You should go to open houses before you can actually afford to buy a house. Hover over your dreams. Signal to your psyche what's possible."
I totally agree. Show your subconscious the way. Set goals to reach your dreams. If you stay in a state of wondering you'll never get there. BE in the middle of it, dig deep, show some discipline, show up! You are the one who will make it happen, no matter what you're striving for, jump in.
The more you keep that dream in your reality, the more likely you are to achieve it. As long as you hold it in your dream state it will seem elusive. Dress the part. Speak the words. Don't shy away from learning, doing, owning it. It is there for you to grab, but you have to put your hand out.